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The Basics of Paced Bottle-Feeding

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December 17, 2025 Infant

sofia's story The Basics of Paced Bottle-Feeding

Paced bottle-feeding helps your baby eat slowly and take breaks – just like they would if they were breastfeeding. It can also help prevent overfeeding and tummy upset. Follow these simple steps to make feeding time safe, calm, and comfortable for both you and your baby.

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Watch for hunger cues

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Feed your baby when they show signs of hunger instead of following a strict schedule. Hunger cues are signs your baby shows to communicate they are hungry, including:

  • ✓ Bringing hands to their mouth
  • ✓ Bending arms and legs toward their body
  • ✓ Making sucking sounds
  • ✓ Puckering lips
  • ✓ Turning their head and looking for the nipple (rooting)
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Always hold your baby during feedings

Never prop up the bottle or leave your baby unattended with a bottle. Holding your baby close helps them feel safe and loved.

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African mom feeding
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Keep your baby sitting up

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Hold your baby in an upright or seated position during feedings, not lying down. This helps your baby swallow safely and reduces the chance of choking and ear infections.

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Let your baby lead

Instead of forcing the bottle into their mouth, gently touch the bottle nipple to your baby’s lips and let them open their mouth and take it in on their own. Use a slow-flow nipple so milk comes out more like it does from the breast.

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Hold the bottle flat

Keep the bottle in a horizontal (sideways) position so the nipple is only partially full with milk. This helps your baby control how much milk they get.

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Allow pauses and breaks

Babies like to take breaks during feedings. When your baby stops sucking, tip the bottle down or remove it from their mouth. Wait until they show signs they’re ready to start again – like sucking on their lips or reaching for the nipple. You can also leave the bottle in your baby’s mouth and lower the level of the bottle so the milk leaves the nipple. When your baby starts to suck again, raise the bottle back up so milk flows back in the nipple.

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Happy mother feeding
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Switch sides halfway through

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About halfway through the feeding, switch the side you’re holding your baby on. This stimulates your baby’s senses and helps them use both eyes and sides of their body.

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Take your time

Feeding should take about 15 to 20 minutes. This gives your baby’s brain time to notice when their tummy is full.

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Watch for fullness cues

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Look for signs that your baby is full and finished eating, including:
  • ✓ Slowing or stopping sucking
  • ✓ Relaxing their hands and arms
  • ✓ Turning away from the nipple
  • ✓ Pushing the bottle away
  • ✓ Falling asleep
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Respect when your baby is done

When your baby shows cues they are full and done eating, don’t try to get them to finish the bottle. If you are unsure if your baby is done, try taking the bottle out of their mouth. If they’re finished, they won’t try to take it back.

Remember,

Every baby is different.
Paying attention to your baby’s cues helps make feeding time more enjoyable and helps your baby grow and thrive. If you have questions about feeding your baby, reach out to WIC for more information and support.

REFERENCES:

California Polytechnic State University. Educational Handout: The Basics of Bottle-Feeding. (2025, October).
https://cpslo-my.sharepoint.com/:b:/g/personal/akventur_calpoly_edu/EdeHrJVueDdCirxsqA3_EwIB8bJ14vIaCgdD8H3Bux7HxQ?e=5XTyis

Unity Point Health. How to Prevent Ear Infections in Babies. (2025, October).
https://www.unitypoint.org/news-and-articles/how-to-prevent-ear-infections-in-babies

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SIDE-LYING HOLD

Side-Lying Hold

  1. For the right breast, lie on your right side with your baby facing you.
  2. Pull your baby close. Your baby’s mouth should be level with your nipple.
  3. In this position, you can cradle your baby’s back with your left arm and support yourself with your right arm and/or pillows.
  4. Keep loose clothing and bedding away from your baby.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You want to rest while baby feeds
  • You are breastfeeding in the middle of the night
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CROSS-CRADLE HOLD

Cross-Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, use your left arm to hold your baby’s head at your right breast and baby’s body toward your left side. A pillow across your lap can help support your left arm.
  2. Gently place your left hand behind your baby’s ears and neck, with your thumb and index finger behind each ear and your palm between baby’s shoulder blades. Turn your baby’s body toward yours so your tummies are touching.
  3. Hold your breast as if you are squeezing a sandwich. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  4. As your baby’s mouth opens, push gently with your left palm on baby’s head to help them latch on. Make sure you keep your fingers out of the way.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is premature
  • Your baby has a weak suck
  • Your baby needs help to stay latched
  • Your baby needs extra head support
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CLUTCH OR “FOOTBALL” HOLD

Clutch or “Football” Hold

  1. For the right breast, hold your baby level, facing up, at your right side.
  2. Put your baby’s head near your right nipple and support their back and legs under your right arm.
  3. Hold the base of your baby’s head with your right palm. A pillow underneath your right arm can help support your baby’s weight.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Bring baby to you instead.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You have large breasts
  • You have flat or inverted nipples
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You are breastfeeding twins
  • Your baby likes to feed in an upright position
  • Your baby has reflux
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CRADLE HOLD

Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, cradle your baby with your right arm. Your baby will be on their left side across your lap, facing you at nipple level.
  2. Your baby’s head will rest on your right forearm with your baby’s back along your inner arm and palm.
  3. Turn your baby’s tummy toward your tummy. Your left hand is free to support your breast, if needed. Pillows can help support your arm and elbow.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby needs help latching on
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
Laid-Back Hold

Laid-Back Hold

  1. Lean back on a pillow with your baby’s tummy touching yours and their head at breast level. Some moms find that sitting up nearly straight works well. Others prefer to lean back and lie almost flat.
  2. You can place your baby’s cheek near your breast, or you may want to use one hand to hold your breast near your baby. It’s up to you and what you think feels best.
  3. Your baby will naturally find your nipple, latch, and begin to suckle.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is placed on your chest right after birth
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You have large breasts
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position