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What Is Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum-depression
November 26, 2025 General /Family

What Is Postpartum Depression?

Having a baby can bring big changes.
Moms and dads often feel joy, love, and excitement. But sometimes, they can feel sad, worried, or alone. If these feelings don’t go away, it may be something more serious – it may be postpartum depression, which is depression that happens after a baby is born.

Postpartum depression can happen for many reasons. If you’re struggling, it’s important to know you did not cause this, and it is not in any way your fault.

Lots of changes happen after a baby is born that may impact how you feel:

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Hormone changes
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Less time for yourself
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Physical recovery from birth
Big-responsibilities
Big responsibilities and more stress
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Less sleep and more fatigue
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Sometimes a lack of support from partner, family, or community

Remember, you are not to blame.

Postpartum depression is a medical condition that requires medical care.

Both Moms and Dads Can Have Postpartum Depression.

It can look or feel different for moms than it does for dads.

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For Moms

Postpartum depression often begins during pregnancy or in the first few weeks after baby is born. Moms with a history of depression or anxiety, or a lack of support are at greater risk of
postpartum depression.

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For Dads

Postpartum depression may start later – often 3–6 months after baby is born, but it can happen anytime in the first year. Dads are at greater risk for postpartum depression if they have a partner with postpartum depression, have a personal history of past mental health struggles, or if they are under financial stress.

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Here are more signs of postpartum depression and what it might look like for moms compared to dads:

CHANGES YOU MIGHT NOTICE
MOMS
DADS
Mood
  • Sad
  • Crying a lot
  • Feeling hopeless or guilty
  • Angry
  • Stressed
  • Easily frustrated
Connection to Baby
  • Hard time bonding or feeling close to the baby
  • Feeling distant from baby or partner
  • Avoiding baby care
Energy & Sleep
  • Feeling very tired
  • Trouble sleeping even when baby sleeps
  • Tired from lack of sleep
  • May spend more time at work or away
Eating & Physical Body Feelings
  • Eating too little or too much
  • May have body aches and pains
  • Changes in eating
  • Stomach problems
  • Headaches
Ability to Focus
  • Trouble thinking clearly or making decisions
  • Hard to focus
  • Less interest in work or home life
Anxiety
  • Feeling very anxious or like a “bad mom”
  • Worries about money or providing for family
  • More irritable
Serious Thoughts of Harm
  • May think about harming self or baby
  • May feel trapped and think about running away
  • May think about self-harm

Warning icon If you have serious thoughts of harming yourself, your baby, or others, get help right away.

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If you or someone you love shows any of these signs, it’s important to reach out for help. Getting help right away will benefit you, your baby, and the rest of your family.

Here’s how to make life a little easier during this time:

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There are things you can try that may help, like:

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Talking with someone you trust — a partner, friend, or family member.

Let them know how you feel. Others care about you and want to help, even if it’s just to listen.

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Making rest a priority.

Sleep when you can. Ask for help with caring for your baby so you can rest – even if just for an hour or so.

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Getting outside.

Go for a walk, breathe fresh air, and move your body a little. As little as 15 minutes outside can refresh your mood.

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Eating well and staying hydrated.

Try to eat regular meals with a variety of foods you enjoy. Drink plenty of water every day to help fight fatigue and irritability – which are both signs of dehydration.

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Finding time for things you enjoy.

Even simple things like listening to music, reading a book or favorite blog, or taking a relaxing bath. Schedule a bit of time each day to do something just for you.

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Talking with a doctor, nurse, or mental health professional.

Sometimes feeling better requires therapy (“talking help”) or medicine. A mental health care provider can help you find ways to manage your feelings or may recommend medication to help you feel more like yourself again.

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If things don’t improve or start to feel worse instead of better, get help right away from a licensed medical provider. Especially if you feel:

  • Unsafe or very out of control
  • Like you might hurt yourself or the baby
  • Like you can’t take care of the baby or yourself
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Find Help Where to Find Help

The following are trusted resources that offer information and support to help.

Postpartum Support International (PSI)

PSI offers support to parents and families suffering from postpartum depression, anxiety, and distress.

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Online Support: ​
Helpline
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Call 1-800-944-4773

(4PPD) #1 En Español or #2 English

Text “Help” to 800-944-4773 (English)

Text en Español 971-203-7773

Click here for free and virtual support groups, where you can talk with other parents going through similar things online:
PSI Online Support Meetings
Click here to find a provider (therapist or counselor) in your area who knows about postpartum mental health:
Provider Directory

NIH Action Plan for Depression & Anxiety During Pregnancy and After Birth

The National Institutes of Health has an Action Plan to help moms and dads see signs of depression or anxiety before or after baby arrives. It includes what to watch for, how to take care of yourself, and when to reach out for help.

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Click here to learn more:
nichd.nih.gov
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To find a mental health provider in your area, call 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
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You Are Not Alone

Postpartum depression can feel very scary. But you are not alone. Many moms and dads feel this way. It can get better with help. You deserve support, care, and kindness – for yourself and your family.

If you or your partner aren’t feeling like yourself after the baby arrives, reach out. Talk, call, or ask for help. The sooner you get help, the sooner you can begin to feel better.

REFERENCES:

Cleveland Clinic. Dehydration and mental health: what’s the connection? (2025, March 28).
https://health.clevelandclinic.org/dehydration-and-affect-on-mental-health

Cleveland Clinic. How the outdoors can improve your mood. (2024, April 9).
https://newsroom.clevelandclinic.org/2024/04/09/how-the-outdoors-can-improve-your-mood

Mayo Clinic. Postpartum depression. (2022, November 24).
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postpartum-depression/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20376623

Office on Women’s Health. Postpartum Depression. (2023, October 17).
https://womenshealth.gov/mental-health/mental-health-conditions/postpartum-depression

National Institute of Mental Health. Perinatal Depression. (2023).
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/perinatal-depression

Postpartum Support International. Help For Dads. (2025).
https://postpartum.net/get-help/help-for-dads/

Postpartum Support International. Get Help. (2025).
https://postpartum.net/get-help/

Postpartum Support International. Contact the PSI HelpLine. (2025).
https://postpartum.net/get-help/psi-helpline/

Postpartum Support International. Online Provider Directory. (2025).
https://postpartum.net/get-help/provider-directory/

Postpartum Support International. Find an Online Support Group. (2025).
https://postpartum.net/get-help/psi-online-support-meetings/

National Institutes of Health. Action Plan for Depression and Anxiety During Pregnancy and After Birth. (2022, June 2).
https://www.nichd.nih.gov/ncmhep/initiatives/moms-mental-health-matters/moms/action-plan

Author: Amanda Hojnacki

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SIDE-LYING HOLD

Side-Lying Hold

  1. For the right breast, lie on your right side with your baby facing you.
  2. Pull your baby close. Your baby’s mouth should be level with your nipple.
  3. In this position, you can cradle your baby’s back with your left arm and support yourself with your right arm and/or pillows.
  4. Keep loose clothing and bedding away from your baby.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You want to rest while baby feeds
  • You are breastfeeding in the middle of the night
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CROSS-CRADLE HOLD

Cross-Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, use your left arm to hold your baby’s head at your right breast and baby’s body toward your left side. A pillow across your lap can help support your left arm.
  2. Gently place your left hand behind your baby’s ears and neck, with your thumb and index finger behind each ear and your palm between baby’s shoulder blades. Turn your baby’s body toward yours so your tummies are touching.
  3. Hold your breast as if you are squeezing a sandwich. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  4. As your baby’s mouth opens, push gently with your left palm on baby’s head to help them latch on. Make sure you keep your fingers out of the way.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is premature
  • Your baby has a weak suck
  • Your baby needs help to stay latched
  • Your baby needs extra head support
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CLUTCH OR “FOOTBALL” HOLD

Clutch or “Football” Hold

  1. For the right breast, hold your baby level, facing up, at your right side.
  2. Put your baby’s head near your right nipple and support their back and legs under your right arm.
  3. Hold the base of your baby’s head with your right palm. A pillow underneath your right arm can help support your baby’s weight.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Bring baby to you instead.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You have large breasts
  • You have flat or inverted nipples
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You are breastfeeding twins
  • Your baby likes to feed in an upright position
  • Your baby has reflux
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CRADLE HOLD

Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, cradle your baby with your right arm. Your baby will be on their left side across your lap, facing you at nipple level.
  2. Your baby’s head will rest on your right forearm with your baby’s back along your inner arm and palm.
  3. Turn your baby’s tummy toward your tummy. Your left hand is free to support your breast, if needed. Pillows can help support your arm and elbow.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby needs help latching on
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
Laid-Back Hold

Laid-Back Hold

  1. Lean back on a pillow with your baby’s tummy touching yours and their head at breast level. Some moms find that sitting up nearly straight works well. Others prefer to lean back and lie almost flat.
  2. You can place your baby’s cheek near your breast, or you may want to use one hand to hold your breast near your baby. It’s up to you and what you think feels best.
  3. Your baby will naturally find your nipple, latch, and begin to suckle.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is placed on your chest right after birth
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You have large breasts
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position