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Getting to Know Your Baby:

Birth To 6 Months
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Healthy Sleep for Baby
Baby Cues
Baby Crying

Having a baby is a very exciting time! Learning about baby behavior can help you understand your baby’s needs.
This webpage answers questions or concerns you may have about sleep, cues, and crying.

SLEEP

Night time waking can be hard. Babies sleep differently than adults. Learn how babies sleep.

CUES

Do you find it hard to know what your baby needs? Learn how your baby communicates with you.

CRYING

Babies cry for many reasons, not just because they are hungry. Learn other reasons babies cry and how you can calm your crying baby.

HELPFUL

TIP

Your newborn baby will wake up frequently. Her stomach is so small that she needs to eat often.

Healthy Sleep for Baby

Night time waking can be hard for new parents. Knowing what to expect will help you feel more relaxed and confident.

Your Baby’s Sleep: What to Expect

Babies are supposed to wake up at night. Waking up at night is important to keep your baby healthy. Babies need to wake up to be fed, to be comfortable, and to be safe. Doctors recommend that babies should be put on their backs to sleep.

Baby Sleep Patterns
Some babies need more sleep than others. As your baby gets older, his sleep will change and become more predictable. This is what you can expect:
  • Newborn to 6 Weeks: During the first 6 weeks, your baby’s sleep will be unpredictable. He is still getting used to the new world around him. Newborn babies sleep for only a few hours at a time, and they will wake up many times throughout the day and night. This is normal and healthy for them.
  • 6 to 8 Weeks: Your baby may sleep more at night because he is awake more during the day. Waking up at night is still normal and healthy.
  • About 3 Months: At night, your baby will sleep for longer periods of time and wake up less often.
  • About 6 Months: Your baby may sleep up to 6 hours at a time.

Babies may have times when they wake up more often due to growth spurts, sickness, or changes in routine.

2 Ways Babies Sleep

Your baby needs to go through periods of both light and deep sleep. Both types of sleep are important for your baby’s health.

LIGHT SLEEP

Babies need light sleep for their brains to grow and develop. Babies dream during light sleep. Dreaming is healthy for them.

During Light Sleep Babies:

  • Move around and make noises
  • Have eye twitches or open and close their eyes quickly
  • Have fast and slow breathing
  • Dream
  • Wake up easily

DEEP SLEEP

Babies need deep sleep for their brains to rest.

During Deep Sleep Babies:

  • Don’t move very much
  • Have relaxed and floppy arms and legs
  • Have regular steady breathing
  • Make sucking movements
  • Don’t wake up easily
Newborn babies fall asleep in light sleep. Some may wake up easily if you lay them down while in light sleep. Wait for signs of deep sleep before laying your baby down.
Tips for Sleepy Parents
New parents can expect to get less sleep. For a few months, most of your sleep will be in short 2-3 hour stretches. These tips will NOT make your baby sleep through the night, but they may help YOU get a few more minutes of sleep. Waking up at night is important for your baby’s health.

Keep baby close at night

Doctors recommend you put your baby’s crib or bassinet in the same room for the first few months. When your baby wakes up and needs something, you won’t have far to go.

Keep the lights low

Keeping lights low while you feed, burp, or change your baby’s diaper during the night will help you get back to sleep more quickly. You do NOT want low lighting if you are doing something that requires your full attention, such as giving medicine.

Sleep when your baby sleeps

While it may seem impossible, try to sleep when your baby sleeps. Even 90 minutes of sleep can help you feel more rested.

Ask for help

Taking care of your little one can be hard work. Ask family and friends for help at home.

Baby Cues

You and your baby will create your own special language.

Babies use their bodies and make noises to let their parents know when they need to eat, learn, play, or rest. These are called cues.

Understanding Your Baby’s Cues

Babies are born with the ability to communicate. They use cues to show parents what they need.

Newborn babies are still learning to control their bodies. Sometimes their cues are hard to understand. Watching your baby will help you learn what she needs.

With practice, your baby will get better at giving cues and you will get better at responding to them.

By responding quickly to your baby’s cues, you will learn to communicate with each other. She will develop confidence that her world is safe and secure.

When Your Baby Is Hungry
Newborn babies have to be fed often because their stomachs are very small. Compared to older babies, newborn babies are more likely to be hungry when they cry. Watching and responding to hunger cues can help prevent some crying.

HUNGER CUES

When your baby is hungry he may:

  • Keep his hands near his mouth
  • Bend his arms and legs
  • Make sucking noises
  • Pucker his lips
  • Search for the nipple (root)

FULLNESS CUES

When your baby is full he may:

  • Suck slower or stop sucking
  • Relax his hands and arms
  • Turn away from the nipple
  • Push away
  • Fall asleep

I Want to Be Near You

As your newborn baby gets older, it will be easier to tell when he is ready to interact, learn, or play. He might:

  • Have a relaxed face and body
  • Follow your voice and face
  • Reach toward you
  • Stare at your face
  • Raise his head

I Need Something to Be Different

Learning is hard work for babies and they can get tired quickly. Your baby will show you signs that he needs something to be different. He might:

  • Look away, turn away, or arch his back
  • Frown or have a glazed look in his eyes
  • Stiffen his hands, arms or legs
  • Yawn or fall asleep
Responding to cues quickly, before your baby starts to fuss, may help your baby cry less.
What Should I Do If My Baby Needs Something to Be Different?
When your baby gives you cues that she is overwhelmed, give her a break from the world around her:
  • Turn her away or stop the activity and hold her close to your body.
  • Change the environment. People or noises can be very tiring for babies. Move her away from the noise and wait until she is ready to interact again.
  • Lay her down for a nap if she is tired. Quiet time is good for both of you!
  • Teach siblings about baby cues. Show them how baby lets them know when she needs a break.
Newborn babies may also be sensitive to what’s going on inside their bodies. Some babies may be fussy right after feeding. Be patient, they may need to burp, pass gas, or poop.

BABY CRYING

Although it is stressful to hear a baby cry, crying is normal for all babies. It is one way they communicate with you.

Babies cry for many reasons, not just because they are hungry.

Baby Tears

Crying can be very stressful for new parents, but crying is normal. It is an important way that babies communicate their needs. As your baby gets older, she will get better at letting you know what she needs. As you get better at understanding and responding to what your baby needs, she will cry less.
By crying, your baby may be telling you…
  • I need something to be different
  • I would like some quiet time
  • I need my diaper changed
  • I need to be close to you
  • I am too hot or too cold
  • I need to be burped
  • I might be sick
  • I am hungry
  • I am afraid
  • I am tired
Steps to Calm Your Crying Baby

Babies use crying as a way to communicate many different things. They use crying to tell you that they need your help.
When your baby is crying:

1

Try to Figure Out the Reason for Crying

For example, is she:

  • In need of a diaper change?
  • Too hot or too cold?
  • Overwhelmed?
  • Tired?
  • Hungry?
  • Uncomfortable?

There may be times when you’ve checked everything and your baby still cries. When this happens:

2

Hold Your Baby Close to You

3

Repeat the Same Action Over and Over

You might try one of the following:

  • Speaking or singing softly
  • Gently rocking, swaying, or bouncing your baby
  • Gently massaging her back, arms, and legs
Calming your baby takes time. Sticking with the same action for several minutes before trying something different can be the secret to success. Be patient. If your baby continues to cry or becomes more upset, try one of the other suggestions listed above.
Tips for Coping with Your Crying Baby

It may take a while for your baby to calm down when she is crying.
This can be very frustrating for parents.

  • Ask a friend or family member to give you a break by helping with your baby.
  • If you start to feel angry or overwhelmed, lay your baby down in a safe place for a few minutes and take a break.
  • Remember, babies cry less and less as they get older.
  • Contact WIC or your doctor if you think your baby is crying too much.
Congratulations!

Part of the wonder and joy of being a new parent is to watch your baby’s personality develop. Your baby is growing and constantly changing. Over the next few months, your baby will learn how to roll over, sit up, crawl, and walk. Enjoy all the moments ahead of you!

Adapted with permission from California WIC and UC Davis Human Lactation Center:

California WIC. Getting to Know Your Baby: Birth to 6 Months. Accessed February 20, 2025. https://docs.wic.ca.gov/Content/Documents/NutritionHealth/Infants/GettingtoKnowYourBaby.pdf
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SIDE-LYING HOLD

Side-Lying Hold

  1. For the right breast, lie on your right side with your baby facing you.
  2. Pull your baby close. Your baby’s mouth should be level with your nipple.
  3. In this position, you can cradle your baby’s back with your left arm and support yourself with your right arm and/or pillows.
  4. Keep loose clothing and bedding away from your baby.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You want to rest while baby feeds
  • You are breastfeeding in the middle of the night
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CROSS-CRADLE HOLD

Cross-Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, use your left arm to hold your baby’s head at your right breast and baby’s body toward your left side. A pillow across your lap can help support your left arm.
  2. Gently place your left hand behind your baby’s ears and neck, with your thumb and index finger behind each ear and your palm between baby’s shoulder blades. Turn your baby’s body toward yours so your tummies are touching.
  3. Hold your breast as if you are squeezing a sandwich. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  4. As your baby’s mouth opens, push gently with your left palm on baby’s head to help them latch on. Make sure you keep your fingers out of the way.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is premature
  • Your baby has a weak suck
  • Your baby needs help to stay latched
  • Your baby needs extra head support
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CLUTCH OR “FOOTBALL” HOLD

Clutch or “Football” Hold

  1. For the right breast, hold your baby level, facing up, at your right side.
  2. Put your baby’s head near your right nipple and support their back and legs under your right arm.
  3. Hold the base of your baby’s head with your right palm. A pillow underneath your right arm can help support your baby’s weight.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Bring baby to you instead.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • You had a C-section
  • You have large breasts
  • You have flat or inverted nipples
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You are breastfeeding twins
  • Your baby likes to feed in an upright position
  • Your baby has reflux
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
CRADLE HOLD

Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, cradle your baby with your right arm. Your baby will be on their left side across your lap, facing you at nipple level.
  2. Your baby’s head will rest on your right forearm with your baby’s back along your inner arm and palm.
  3. Turn your baby’s tummy toward your tummy. Your left hand is free to support your breast, if needed. Pillows can help support your arm and elbow.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby needs help latching on
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
Laid-Back Hold

Laid-Back Hold

  1. Lean back on a pillow with your baby’s tummy touching yours and their head at breast level. Some moms find that sitting up nearly straight works well. Others prefer to lean back and lie almost flat.
  2. You can place your baby’s cheek near your breast, or you may want to use one hand to hold your breast near your baby. It’s up to you and what you think feels best.
  3. Your baby will naturally find your nipple, latch, and begin to suckle.

This hold is useful when:

  • Your baby is placed on your chest right after birth
  • You have a strong milk let-down
  • You have large breasts
  • You and your baby are comfortable in this position